Author: leadership dots by dr. beth triplett

I'm the chief connector at leadership dots where I serve as "the string" for individuals and organizations. Like stringing pearls together to make a necklace, "being the string" is an intentional way of thinking and behaving – making linkages between things that otherwise appear random or unconnected – whether that be supervising a staff, completing a dissertation or advancing a project in the workplace. I share daily leadership dots on my blog to provide examples of “the string” in action. I use the string philosophy through coaching, consulting and teaching to help others build capacity in themselves and their organizations. I craft analogies and metaphors that help people comprehend complex topics and understand their role in the system. My favorite work involves helping those new to supervision or newly promoted supervisors build confidence and learn the skills necessary to effectively lead their team.

leadership dot #3952: graduates

June 3, 2023June 1, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

With graduation season upon us, many businesses are acknowledging their seniors with a cake or other internal celebration. Freddy’s Hamburgers has gone a step further and is publicly recognizing the achievements of its seniors through an eye-catching display of signs. Each of the graduates has a personal sign — not only much nicer than a generic “congratulations graduates” banner — but it makes a can’t-miss display to all who drive by.

The display achieves two goals: recognizing the graduates and also letting others know that the restaurant is hiring due to the departure of many who are presumably off to college or career. It’s an effective way to do both simultaneously.

Internal recognition is always welcome, but external accolades have a role to play as well. For the younger generation who likes personalization and Instagram-worthy experiences, a little sign can go a long way.

leadership dot #3951: drops

June 2, 2023June 2, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplett1 Comment

A bug divebombed directly into my eye and caused an irritation that necessitated a visit to the doctor. He prescribed eye drops that came in a teeny-tiny bottle for $65. The entire contents are less than a thimbleful (if you’re old enough to know what that is!) or, in other words, far less than a soda bottle capful. Not much!

I put the prescribed drop in my eye while I was still at the pharmacy and a miracle occurred. The eye that had been in pain for 36 hours was relieved before I made it to my car.

For many things, we think that bigger is better, but the eye drops reminded me it’s the impact that counts, not the size. If you have the right strategy, right idea, or right hire, you don’t need to focus on volume. Great power can come from a singular source.

P. S. Happy 11th Anniversary Leadership Dots! Another example of how small drops (aka dots) can have a bigger impact.

leadership dot #3950: love ’em

June 1, 2023May 31, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

Yesterday, I had my first session as a volunteer tutor of English as a Second Language. I’m functioning in a substitute role, so had no advance notice of the level of the student or how to effectively cover our lesson. As I was fretting about what I was going to teach, one of the other volunteers said to me: “Just love ’em.”

I commented that it sounded like a good philosophy for many things and she shared a story of a man who was continually irritated by the dandelions in his yard. His neighbor shared the same sentiment: “Learn to just love ’em.”

Whether ESL students or dandelions — or most things in between — it’s a good mantra to follow. A little grace goes a long way.

leadership dot #3949: keep notes

May 31, 2023May 30, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

I just concluded a professional development contract with a client I have been coaching for an extended period. At the start of our work, one of my recommendations was to get a notebook just for our sessions — lessons from our time together, reflections that occurred afterward, and prompts to remember scenarios that she wanted to discuss in the future. I did likewise, and in preparation for our last call, we both reviewed our notebooks. They provided tangible evidence of the progress that was made — reminders of things that used to be a struggle but now were not, enhancements that had resulted from some of the techniques she tried, and increased confidence overall.

Keeping such a record is a useful tool for almost any project. You may not think you are making progress on something, especially if it’s an intangible like professional development, onboarding, coaching, or parenting, but having something written down in a discrete format allows you to see the path your learning has taken. Just making a few notes about the issues of the day or your joys and challenges can go far in capturing a snapshot in time that can be compared with future moments.

It’s difficult to have a meaningful sense of time without everything blurring together. If something is important to you, dedicate a notebook to it. It doesn’t have to be lofty (I stock up on cheap spiral versions during the back-to-school sales), but keeping notes will become an invaluable tool for reflection and validation of your progress.

leadership dot #3948: the box

May 30, 2023May 27, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplett1 Comment

I am childless, so it was with great irony that I shared a list of local activities for kids with a mom of four. She knew I had such a list because each summer I host “Aunt Camp” for my niece but it still struck me as an unlikely request. When I laughed about it, she said “You think outside the box a bit better than me.”

The funny thing is that I have never felt that way about myself. Yes, I am an innovator and have led many change efforts in my day but most of the out-of-the-box aspect of that work comes from surrounding myself with others who have bold and crazy ideas and by creating a safe space that frees them to share those thoughts. My contribution is being able to pitch those ideas at the right time, breaking through barriers, and creating conditions for “out-of-the-boxness” to thrive. Like with the list of summer activities for kids, I’m also an expert curator who saves ideas in an ongoing and organized way so I have ideas to build on and don’t have to start from scratch when I’m trying to stimulate a new thought.

I’ve written about Patrick Lencioni’s new book Working Genius before (dot #3726) and this is another scenario that validates his premise. You don’t need to master all phases of the process. Keeping a box (or 20) of ideas can help others use them as stepping stones to begin their own out-of-the-box thinking. Both have their place in achieving creative outcomes.

leadership dot #3947: remembered

May 29, 2023June 2, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

It’s Memorial Day — a day to remember the men and women who died while serving in the military.

There will be parades, tributes to the fallen, and other forms of acknowledgment that unfortunately will fade once the holiday is over. In the Boston area, they have found a more lasting way to recognize those who have served and fallen in the line of duty: permanent plaques on many of their street corners. The posts include the name in raised lettering and a red, white, and blue wreath with color that draws your attention to the sign which hangs year-round. You can’t help but notice them.

As you attempt to create a recognition program for those who have left a legacy in your organization, consider something more lasting than just a going-away party. Those special few you are appreciating are an important part of your organization’s story. Tributes shouldn’t be fleeting.

leadership dot #3946: distribution

May 28, 2023May 27, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

Yesterday, I wrote (dot #3945) about vending machines that are being repurposed to dispense public health items. Another less-traditional item being distributed in this way is women’s menstrual hygiene products.

One study showed that nearly one in five women is unable to afford the tampons or sanitary pads they need on a regular basis. To address this “period poverty,” nonprofit organizations such as the Red Basket Project work to raise funds and place feminine hygiene products in public restrooms. These supplies are placed, fittingly, in a red basket and are free for those in need to take. Other public entities distribute the products through free vending machines.

While the results are the same, the two methods have a markedly different feel — one is of hospitality and a caring community while the machine dispenser feels institutional and less of a gift. It’s a minor distinction to be sure, and if you were in need of supplies you may not notice or care how you obtained them, but somewhere along the line organizations made an intentional choice of how to provide this service.

When you are putting something out into the world — whether it be a product, service, giveaway, or idea — think not only of the distribution method but how you want your audience to feel about receiving it. Never discount the emotional aspect of what you offer.

leadership dot #3945: accessible

May 27, 2023May 26, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

While many products can help low-income people address health concerns, there are often barriers to the distribution system. In addition to cost, there is a stigma attached to buying certain products, stores aren’t easily accessible or may not be open during the hours of need.

To eliminate these hurdles and get public health items into neighborhoods, Shaffer Distributing Co. is modifying ordinary vending machines to dispense a variety of “harm-reduction” products including fentanyl testing strips, HIV testing kits, safe sex kits, and prescription drug disposal bags. Once they receive government approval, they will also distribute Narcan and Naxalone, the opioid overdose treatment drugs.

These modified machines are currently located in places with round-the-clock access such as public libraries, post offices, college campuses, police stations, and city halls. This affords the user privacy and the ability to access free products that prevent a health issue from worsening or could even save lives.

If you feel like your organization is facing barriers that prevent you from reaching your audience, take a fresh look at your dilemma through the lens of Shaffer Distributing, a traditional arcade game equipment supplier that morphed some of its inventory into health-supply vending. Instead of being thwarted by tradition, maybe there is an adaptation of another method that will allow you to reach your targets and provide what they need in a different manner.

Source: Life-saving drugs in a vending machine by Marty Turner, Director of Vending Sales, Shaffer Distributing in Insider Q & A in the Telegraph Herald, May 14, 2023, p. 22A

leadership dot #3944: don’t settle

May 26, 2023May 24, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

“We’re entitled to and capable of much more joy than we have settled for.”

I’ve had this quote by Laurie Santos rattling around in my brain since I heard it. Where Santos’ quote is the kicker: “…and capable of” — pointing out that we need to work at it and that joy won’t just come calling.

It reminds me of the opening line in Jim Collins’ masterpiece Good to Great: “Good is the enemy of great.” We settle for “good” with so many things in life, joy included, because it’s less effort than seeking out greatness. We become complacent — about where we live, our friends, our job, our health, and our happiness — going through life without questioning our circumstances unless they become truly awful.

It doesn’t have to be this way. Think about what truly makes you happy. What brings you joy? And how much do you work to infuse this into your life? Don’t settle for less bliss than you deserve.

watermelon — one of the things that brings me great joy!

leadership dot #3943: be significant

May 25, 2023May 24, 2023by leadership dots by dr. beth triplettLeave a comment

There are over 3 million podcasts offering a total of 48 million episodes to a half-billion listeners. And one of those episodes features — me! I was invited by a former colleague to be a guest on his show and reluctantly accepted. I’m usually not a fan of thinking on my feet and being interviewed without preparation, but it was actually just a conversation about my leadership journey and lessons I have learned along the way. Who doesn’t like to talk about that?

The podcast came at a fortuitous time as I have recently been reflecting on my path (see dot #3908). As I said in the episode, we don’t make enough time to reflect and thus often miss out on the insights we can gain from looking at the themes of our lives. I’ve learned that I am hesitant about saying yes, but often when I do, I actually enjoy the experience and reap good things from it (just like with doing a podcast!)

The opportunity also reawakened my consciousness that people have different ways of learning and consuming information. I’m not a big podcast listener and much prefer the written word, but having varied or multiple means of communicating your message is a good thing. Don’t look for me to start a podcast anytime soon, but I do mix up the ways I share lessons in my classes and workshops and will be more cognizant of doing so.

I invite you to listen to the episode and see if it inspires you to reflect on the lessons from your journey. Whether you use a podcast or blog to share your insights with others, just thinking about your path is a valuable use of your time to help you craft your future.

Be Significant podcast with Beth Cook and Matt Rogers, May 22, 2023: Dr. beth triplett: All roads lead to Indianapolis