A friend recounted the story of attempting to carry his fly-fishing rod onto a flight. This was a particularly sentimental object, having been custom made, received as a gift, the first rod that spurred an extensive life-changing pastime, and with great monetary value as well. Although he had brought this item on board many times before, the surly agent was not having it and required that it be gate-checked.
When he boarded, the flight attendant cheerily asked how he was doing, and the distressing story was recounted. He was quite unhappy and worried that his precious rod would not be returned safely.
A few minutes later, she approached him with the item in hand. This attendant had understood the value, knew it was not a prohibited item, and took it upon herself to retrieve it. It cost nothing yet significantly relieved his anxiety and enhanced his experience.
That is what service looks like. Having the process to ask about a situation, the empathy to understand the distress, and the wherewithal to do something about it in real-time. A sympathetic response would have done nothing to remedy the angst. An apology from the airline would not have mattered a few days later. Even a safely returned package would not have remedied the situation. The time to make an impact was in the moment, and the attendant achieved that.
When you see something run amuck, the expediency of the empathy determines the effectiveness of the response.













