leadership dot #2917: bottleneck

I had to have the “tough love” talk with a client that I am coaching about his dissertation. Each week, we talk about tasks that should be done and too many weeks went by when I was having the same conversation over and over. It seems that the problem boiled down to the fact that all the tasks were small, therefore, it seemed like no big deal to push them off a day or two – or ten. We talked about the implication that each delay caused, and, as we plotted the calendar, he realized that the targeted graduation date was at risk unless he took the little tasks more seriously.

The dissertation process is similar to so many other things where a big project is broken into hundreds of smaller tasks. In fact, many time management experts recommend that specific strategy. The problem comes in when those little things become too easy to put off. Eventually, a bottleneck ensues, and no matter how small the tasks, there are just too many of them to finish in the allotted time.

It happens when getting ready for a board meeting, preparing for the holidays, writing a grant, submitting an RFP or leaving on a major trip. All the little things become a big thing as they back up and get condensed into shorter and shorter time frames.

Don’t dismiss the minor things on your to-do list if they are the initial steps to making a big thing happen. The importance of a task is not always proportionate to its size.

 

leadership dot #2916: promise

When I worked at a university, we were always cautious about promoting the fact that we were a “safe campus.” We were – up until that point – but it was out of our control whether the safe status would continue. One incident prompted by someone else could abolish the safety record and it seemed prudent to focus on promising what we could guarantee vs. what was more of a hope.

I think organizations find themselves in a similar situation as they prepare to re-open when COVID restrictions are lifted. Can they assure us that it is safe to do so? No. They can point out precautions that they are taking (and presumably were taking before the virus) but should not absorb the risk associated by making unsubstantiated claims to promise safety.

I also wonder whether leaders are considering the long-term impact of thousands of dollars and person-hours that are being expended to deliver that extra mile of precaution. Have you seriously weighed whether it is justified for your organization to invest significant resources to UV-light or sanitation bomb a facility every day vs. wiping down heavily trafficked surfaces? Have you investigated whether it the best use of your organization’s funds to super-sanitize after every transaction, or would moderately-improved precautions show better stewardship and return on investment? Maybe you have decided that it is worth it for your organization to go all-in and implement very visible and extensive precautions, but have you still stopped short of promising that they will be fully effective?

Be intentional about deciding what you will and will not do. People like it when you do “more” and tend to get upset when you revert to “less.” Before you promise “safety” or enact a host of new measures, consider how long you are willing to do so and whether the overall cost of your efforts is prudent. There is no definitive end in sight to the virus, so whatever you choose to do, you may be doing it for quite a long time. How will you justify “stopping” or cutting back without creating a public relations issue when you do so?

Beyond a certain point, safety becomes a personal responsibility and consideration. Think carefully before taking long-term ownership to provide something that is beyond your scope to deliver.

leadership dot #2915: trust radar

If your inbox is like mine, it is suddenly flooded with messages from companies proclaiming their support about equity and inclusion. A few months ago, everyone was writing about how they were here for me during the virus, then later, how they had re-opened and again were ready to serve.

We discussed this sudden flow of information in the managerial communication class that I am teaching now and considered these messages through Daniel Diermeier’s Trust Radar. He contends that to build trust, you must incorporate four factors: transparency (being honest about what you do and do not know), expertise or competence, commitment (often demonstrated through the involvement of senior management) and empathy. My class believes that a fifth component is required: timeliness. The same message that arrives too late is far less effective.

Think about the Radar when you are composing messages – not just in a crisis situation, but as part of your ongoing communication. When you consider your words through this lens, you’re far more likely to hit the target and foster the trust that caused you to prepare the message in the first place.

Source: Reputation Rules by Daniel Diermeier, 2011

leadership dot #2914: rationale

I had the undesirable experience of going to the can redemption center to return my four months of bottles and cans in order to claim my deposit money. Usually, I return them a week or so at a time at the grocery store, but since COVID stores have stopped their redemption process. Of course, they still charge me, but now I needed to wait in line outside for a half-hour to reclaim my bounty.

I believe that the grocers are going to hold off on resuming redemption for as long as they can get away with it. It’s a filthy, disgusting process (that I think should be stopped anyway – can you tell?) and if they don’t need to invest the staff time or storage space, why would they?

As things reopen, I am noticing that many businesses are taking advantage of the opportunity to limit their services under the guise of COVID, but I suspect that the motivation is more financial. The bank doesn’t even have drive-up hours on Saturdays. Stores won’t allow you to re-use cups for fountain drinks, forcing you to buy a new one each time. Business hours are limited and some stores do not even open on Sundays during this time.

I wonder how many of these restrictions truly are for sanitation or whether they continue simply for businesses to realize savings. With phased re-openings and so much unknown, the line is blurred between precaution or preference. Make sure you have rationale – not rationalization – for your actions.

 

leadership dot #2913: pup cup

If you want an example of knowing your audience, Dairy Queen’s Pup Cup may be it. The local establishment sells ice cream, of course, to owners of dogs who want to provide a treat for their canine “kids.” But to make the item special the DQ includes a Milk Bone on top.

That bone is not there for the dog; it’s there for the human. It’s not as if the dog is asking for either the dessert or the treat, but by catering to the pet parents Dairy Queen can generate additional business for itself from those who want to spoil their companions.

Think about who your true influencer is. The dog may be the end user, but the human is the one handing over the cash. Whose tail should you try to make wag?

leadership dot #2912: surrender

I was able to get my hair cut yesterday after missing four appointments as a result of the virus. There are many times between my regular three-week visits that the length or thickness of my hair makes me crazy and I am anxious to see my stylist, but, unbelievably, this wasn’t one of them.

When my hair started to grow out during the early days of shelter-in-place, it made me go nuts. But after a while, I just gave up and by last week, I was wearing it around the house using the band from my journal as an improvised headband. It wasn’t worth the mental energy to fight with it anymore.

The same is true in many other situations. People are bothered by being “a little” wet, but at some point, to fight it is moot. It matters when you are somewhat tired but then you reach a stage where the exhaustion turns to giddiness and you stop suppressing the yawns. You may try to stay clean when working outdoors, then a little mud turns into a lot and you just give up. You may get worked up every single time you do your expense reports, but is it worth it?

The trick is figuring out where that resignation point is and acknowledging it. Save yourself the annoyance and mental energy that it takes to fight with yourself as you try and manage something which is futile to control. To use Elsa’s famous phrase: “let it go!” Surrender and you can be at peace.

leadership dot #2911: what and how

There are two parts to storytelling – you have to know the story and you have to know how to tell it. We often consider the process as a whole, but the two elements are distinct and separate.

There are many examples where this challenge plays out. I see people of all ages struggle with articulating their strengths – understanding what they even are, let alone communicating them in a resume or cover letter. Leaders are often aware of the accomplishments of their organization, but become challenged in making them concise and compelling in media or grants. Organizational leaders right now are wondering whether or not to put out a message about the social unrest – they have a vehicle to share a message, but are wrestling with what to say or what story they have to tell. Every day I have to dig deep to determine not only a message for a dot, but a lesson that has relevance to those reading it.

I think it makes our communication more effective if we treat the knowing and telling as two components instead of one. Begin with the story itself — raising your consciousness of what makes you or your organization different from others in a similar role, keeping track of anecdotes and figures that bring the story to life, and always being mindful of the environment and the messages that are currently relevant to your audience. Then you can focus on how to tell the story – relying on past experiences regarding the most effective media to reach your clients, drawing on lessons you’ve gleaned from other writing that struck a chord with you, and utilizing an established look/tone/voice to communicate your messages.

Think about what you’re best at – what you say or how you say it – and work to find others to help you enhance your weaker part. To be effective, you need to have both elements in synch.

 

leadership dot #2910: how to

YouTube has become the go-to resource for learning how to do things. Want to fix your pipe? Learn how to record a podcast? Know how to teach your child math? There’s likely a video showing you precisely what you need to do. YouTube is the second-most visited site in the world with 30 million visitors and 5 billion new uploads – each day!

This kind of volume makes YouTube a great resource for learning – and its heft shapes the consciousness and expectations of everyone. Over a trillion people have used the service, frequently finding it a straightforward and easy way to fix or create something.

But there are many things in our organizations and lives that can’t be taught in a short video snippet. Systemic change, deep-seated healing, organizational culture and relationship building don’t occur in a 30-minute how-to. People may wish they did, but it doesn’t work that way. There is no YouTube video on how to magically cure the virus, mitigate the impact of racism, stop police brutality or revitalize a crippled economy.

The serious work that needs to be done – the real work that makes an impact – doesn’t come with a 5 Steps Checklist on how to do it. As an organizational leader or concerned citizen, you may be tempted to focus on the urgent and look for that quick fix. But if you can put your strategy on YouTube, it’s the wrong one. The answer you need requires grace, time, openness, action and missteps. “How to” on the important stuff is all about hard, not easy, but must begin within each of us.

 

leadership dot #2909: OPOQ

Back in the day when I worked at a drug store, we had coding on the shelves that served as our inventory and ordering system. Two simple numbers helped keep the shelves stocked — OPOQ: Order Point Order Quantity. In other words, a 2/4 meant that when there were only two of those items remaining (order point) it was time to order 4 more (order quantity). It took the guesswork out of the process and allowed a high school student like myself to manage the ordering for the department because there were clear guidelines on when it was time to act.

I think that OPOQ can serve as a useful point of documentation for not only office supplies and pantry items but as a type of gauge to have conversations about comfort level with risk. Think of Order Point as Action Point – at what stage should action be triggered?

You and your manager (or partner) should agree on parameters by which action should be taken or when the other needs to be informed. You likely won’t quantify it with a simple two-digit number, but a shared understanding is very helpful of whether tolerance is low or high, whether you have the autonomy to act or need to check-in, and the level of communication that the other would like to receive. If one person is likely to observe a situation and let it play out before intervening (a high action point), and the other believes in course corrections as soon as a deviation is noted (a low action point) – it would be beneficial to know this and come to some agreement before being faced with a decision-warranting scenario. Similar discussions in advance about the amount of action that is required (action quantity) in hypothetical situations could also prove worthwhile instead of learning the information during real dramas as they are playing out.

What’s your personal OPOQ? Pay attention to your own behavior and see if you can develop an understanding of where you fall on the action/response spectrum to allow you to communicate those values to others.

P.S.  Happy 8th Anniversary Leadership Dots!

 

leadership dot #2908: promises

At long last, I was able to take my very dirty dogs to a grooming appointment. The groomer said: “Oh, it shouldn’t be long for just a bath.” As a result, I opted not to go home, expecting a phone call in about an hour or so. Two and a half hours later, I went back in only to learn that one dog was still wet and had not yet been trimmed!

That same day, I received a package in the mail. This was an item that was originally billed as “two-day shipping” and it actually took four, but they told me that it would take five days so I was actually excited that it came “early.”

It’s all about the expectations. Had my groomer said: “See you in three hours,” I would have gone home, gotten work accomplished and been fine with it. As it was, my interpretation of “not long” caused me to be furious about the whole situation. Never mind how clean the dogs were – it was a bad experience.

Contrast that with a company who took twice as long as normal to ship an item, but made me happy about it because they set my expectations for it to be even longer. It’s much better than other retailers who have taken longer to ship things, did not pre-warn me about delays, and then tried to mollify the situation by offering a coupon with the late delivery. It doesn’t work that way.

People can tolerate a lot of things – if their expectations are aligned with reality. It’s part of what makes COVID harder – original expectations were for a few weeks or maybe a month, but never through all of 2020.

Give great care to the expectations you set – whether stated or implicit. You can delight people but only if you manage promises carefully so you are able to deliver more than people expect.