A colleague who is new to professional life was part of a discussion about prospective plans. At the end of the conversation, she was ready to act on what had been discussed but was told not to move forward just yet. “Oh yes,” she said. “Conversations aren’t decisions. I need to get used to that.”
The distinction is important for new and seasoned professionals. Most welcome when cultures engage others in conversations but those involved need to remember that it doesn’t mean the issue has been decided. When you invite others to participate, be clear about the next steps. Having a voice doesn’t mean having a vote.
