Several people have recently asked me if I’ve had a similar situation to theirs, and people have commented on the dots saying: “Often they validate my thinking, which is good because otherwise, I’d wonder if it’s me!” These are accomplished, professional people, yet there is still doubt as to whether they are the only ones facing uncomfortable situations.
In virtually every case, they are not alone…
…but it helps to hear someone else say that. Their queries reinforce for me the importance of having a coach, mentor, professional network, or confidante (or blog writer 😃) who can allay the doubts and boost your self-confidence. Another person can provide perspective, experience, and a non-biased view of the situation that can keep your second-guessing at bay — in addition to offering suggestions as to how to move forward.
The next time demons come knocking, stop your internal wondering and instead turn to your resources for evidence that it’s not only you.
